As a certified sex educator and co-owner of an upscale adult toy store, Amy is passionate about providing honest, accurate information to help people enhance their sexual pleasure and well-being. Ask her anything related to sexuality, and your question may be answered and posted as one of the questions of the week. To learn more about Amy, click here.
I’m a tall, good looking, successful single guy living in the Santa Cruz area. While I have no problem connecting with women, I have a cuckold fetish that gets in the way of long term relationships. Specifically, seeing my significant other with Black men really, really turns me on. Am I wrong assuming this fetish is enjoyed mostly by white men or are more women becoming more comfortable with this kind of relationship? [Read Amy's Answer…]
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New FREE video clips are up from Lollie’s “Foreplay 101″ class on YouTube and on our website. Check back for new clips every week!
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I'm positive we have the most extensive selection of books on sexual health and pleasure within an 80 mile radius
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When I first started having sex I was able to have vaginal orgasms very easily. As I’ve gotten older, manual clitoral stimulation has become necessary about 99.9% of the time to reach climax. Is this normal and is there anyway to make vaginal orgasm easier again? [Read Amy's Answer…]
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Soooo I am one of those girls that squirts…a lot. People tell me its sexy, but I am worried because it can be smelly. Sometimes it smells like urine, so I started making sure to always pee before having sex. Its totally not sexy “Ooh baby you’re making me so hot. Just hold on while I take a piss.” Sometimes that works, but sometimes I don’t think it does. And the worst part is that we have to sleep in it. We have super hot sex, get the bed all wet, and then it’s just all smelly. It gives me a headache and makes me embarrassed. Is it urine mixing with my juice? Am I just peeing the bed? Or is it like boy jizz and what you eat changes the taste/smell, like coffee and beer?
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A quick book review on The Ultimate Guide to Kink:
Tristan Taormino’s The Ultimate Guide to Kink is a great book for kinksters of all skill levels and proclivities. Taormino has collected a series of essays from some of the world’s leading BDSM educators. Rather than being an all-encompassing instruction manual, the book features a wide variety of essays on topics ranging from rope bondage and power exchange to taboo role play and mindfucks. Each essay is written by a different educator and the enthusiasm each person has for their topic is evident. The result is an insightful and educational guide that will set your mind ablaze with possibilities.
Highly recommended!
-Ari from Pure Pleasure
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I believe that sex represents more than just the creation of children.
I believe it is an enjoyable, healthy and a profound part of the human experience.
I also believe that the responsible use of birth control is an essential component of a mature, civilized society.
And if these beliefs make me a slut in some people’s eyes, then so be it.
I will stand united with my fellow sluts, now and always
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I’m not too sure if you’ll be able to help me but I do some desperate advice. I’ve recently been doing nude modeling for an art class and last night “I came standing to attention” mid way through it’s incredibly unprofessional and I’m sure no one signed up for that! I’m really worried it will happen again. Is there any cream or any advice that could keep it down? Please help if you can, im not sure if you answer these types of questions. Thanks [Read Amy's Answer…]
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I have a question about my boyfriend. We’ve been dating for about a year and a half now. We’ve been intimate but its only one time a day and thats all. haha, somedays I just want more or all day sex and I ask why only once, he says its because he can’t get it up again, which makes me feel like its my fault. Is it? I also asked about taking a pill and he says he doesn’t want to because he doesn’t want a hard on all day.. Please help me:(( [Read Amy's Answer…]
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The Natural is aptly named, and undoubtedly one of my favorite toys. I love that it is non-phallic, made of 100% high-grade silicone, and made to fit perfectly inside my body. The soft pointed tip allows for easy insertion and the bulky body presses firmly on all the 
right places inside me. The base of the Natural indents just enough to give your body something to grip onto, a key component of orgasmic pleasure. The external attachment is textured, providing a fantastic new sensation on the clit, whether through rubbing or touching the end with a vibrator (definitely a must-try). I also love the length of the Natural- not too long, but still long and thick enough to inspire moans.
This dildo feels a lot more “natural” than most dildos I’ve experienced, plus it’s anal safe! The bulk is just as good as an anal plug as it is for g-spot play, and the clit attachment can easily be placed on the perineum to stimulate all those fantastic nerve endings, making the Natural a toy for everyone to enjoy. One of my favorite ways to use it is to have it inside me while I clench and release my PC muscles, moving the Natural as hard or as soft as my body wants, all the while holding my Mystic Wand on the clit attachment. The Natural is definitely one of my bedside table toys, and I would recommend giving it a try. You won’t regret it!
About Lollie: Lollie is a Pure Pleasure employee and educator, kink advocate, and a redhead with a personality to match.
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