New ONLINE Sex-Ed Videos Now Available!

by Amy on May 14, 2013

in Amy's Blog,Classes

Take Pure Pleasure Sex-Ed from the privacy of your own home! Filmed from an actual live class!

Just added:

Intermediate Rope Bondage with Rain DeGrey: Online Class

Approximately 40 minutes

THIS CLASS FEATURES EXPLICIT MATERIAL! BY PURCHASING THIS CLASS, YOU AGREE TO BE AT/OVER THE AGE OF 18 YEARS OF AGE, AND WILL NOT SHARE WITH ANYONE UNDER THE AGE OF 18!

Have some rope skills but want to improve on them? Well then, this is the class for you! Rain Degrey, rope aficionado and bondage junkie, wants to show you just how much fun bondage can be. This class will cover simple wrist and ankle ties, and 2 different types of chest harnesses. Be sure to have 1-2 25-30′ rope on hand.

PLEASE NOTE: This class is fast-paced! Remember, you do have the ability to pause/replay as many times as you like. If you feel like you missed a tie on one of the shots, be patient as she may show you the same tie later on in the class.

Instructor: Rain Degrey is a Pro-Domme, fetish model, rigger and educator. She is passionate about the lifestyle and considers education and serving the community an important part of being “kinky”. Demystifying and encouraging the joy of BDSM is the motto she lives by. Strap-on play and rope bondage are two of her specialties, and combining them is even better! She regularly does self suspensions, and can be found performing at many local clubs and venues in the Bay Area.

How to Drive a Vulva- Pleasuring Her: Online Class

Approximately 1 hour and 40 minutes

Learn how to navigate the twists and turns of female sexuality in a class designed for people of all genders.

In this playful, informative 2-hour workshop lead by sapphic savant, Allison Moon, you will learn all the basics, including:

*The bits and pieces that make up female sexual anatomy
*Simple ways to communicate in the heat of the moment
*How to build a “Road Map” of your partner’s pleasure
*Hand-sex, cunnilingus, and other things vulvas love
*Positions to avoid fatigue and generate the power you need to rock their world
*Plus a few super secret, lesbian-ninja techniques

You’ll come away with new confidence to please a vulva and the person it belongs to, no matter what your hands-on experience.

Instructor:  Allison Moon, Sapphic savant and former “mayor” of Camp Beaverton for Wayward Girls, Burning Man’s home for queer women, Allison has been doling out sex tips for years. She’s the author of the lesbian werewolf novel Lunatic Fringe, and is working on a series of ebooks on sex and creativity. Find her at http://www.talesofthepack.com/

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How to Find the Perfect Cock Ring (Simplified)

by Amy on April 18, 2013

in Amy's Blog

Interested in trying out a metal or hard silicone cock ring? Be sure to measure yourself for the perfect fit (or, if anything, to avoid a trip to the emergency room). Keep in mind that you want your cock ring to be snug while just loose enough to get on and off. Also, when dealing with non-stretchy rings, it is ideal to put the cock ring on when the penis is soft/semi-soft.

Here are a few easy steps to find the right size for you:

 

1. Get a string and wrap it underneath your/your partner’s testicles and around the base of the penis. Not too tight!

2. Get a pen and mark the string where both sides meet. Again, not too tight as you want this to be a comfortable fit.

3. Now measure the string from where you made your mark. You now have your circumference.

4. Divide this measurement by 3.14 (pi), and now you have your diameter.

5. Your diameter is also your cock ring size. Round up if it is not exact

Note: If at any moment you experience pain and/or discoloration, remove the cock ring immediately. If you find it impossible to remove the cock ring, please do not hesitate to go to the emergency room. This is why cock ring sizing is so important! And last but not least, have fun!!

 

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Looking For a Sex Therapist?

by Amy on March 28, 2013

in Amy's Blog

We get a lot of requests for referrals for local sex therapists, and Melissa Fritchle is usually our go-to for anything beyond what this lil’ sex educator can handle. Aside from being a Holistic Psychotherapist, Melissa is also a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in Sex Therapy and Couples Therapy, as well as a Gender Specialist who is also LGBTQ-sensitive, with a great passion for promoting sex-positivity (note- she also teaches classes at our shop from time to time).

While finding the right therapist may be a challenge of its own, one of the main obstacles we are seeing for those seeking sex therapy is that of a financial one as many folks are living without insurance, and many insurance plans may not even cover this type of appointment. The good news: Melissa provides options! To start, she offers a free consultation to see if she is even the right fit for you, which is extremely important as therapy is a very personal experience, where some therapists may be better equipped to cater to your needs than others.  She also offers a few sliding-scale spots for those who cannot afford her regular rates (note- these spot fill up quickly!). And to top it all off, she writes a wonderful blog that is basically packed with FREE sex and relationship advice! Check. It. Out!

For more information, visit Melissa’s website at http://www.mf-therapy.com

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Lollie Answers: Is Lotion Safe For Hand-jobs?

by Amy on February 27, 2013

in Amy's Blog,Ask Amy

Suzie Asks:

If I use scented lotion from, say Bath and Body Works, to give a hand job, would that be harmful in any way? [Read Amy's Answer…]

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Amy Answers: Ass to Vag Etiquette

by Amy on February 19, 2013

in Amy's Blog,Ask Amy

DanzNuby1 Asks:

I believe my lover & I must avoid contacting any part of me that’s been in/against her anally into her vulva/vagina, without appropriately cleaning me first. But we’ve no idea: 1) what’s an ideal cleaner, 2) what time-duration makes it unnecessary (since we are regularly apart for several days, our playtime’s start @ a couple hours). I doubt we’ve a unique, or even rare concern here, so if you’ve a link that answers our questions, that”s great as well.
Thanks very much! [Read Amy's Answer…]

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Lollie Answers: Burning Sensation From My Sex Toy

by Amy on January 16, 2013

in Amy's Blog,Ask Amy

Ell Asks:

How do get the burning to subside after using toy? [Read Amy's Answer…]

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Happy New Year!

by Amy on January 4, 2013

in Amy's Blog

Happy New Year, lovers! I have a feeling 2013 is going to be an amazing year…

        Besos!

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Lollie Answers: I’m TOO Big!

by Amy on December 24, 2012

in Amy's Blog,Ask Amy

Inchworm Asks:

My girlfriend told me that she feels that I’m to big for her.  I suppose it should be a compliment but it isn’t.  Its always been a problem in my life and I really want things to work out.  She says sometimes it hurts but sometimes it doesn’t.  There’s hope!  My question is:  Is there anything you would recommend to remedy our problem or any information the discusses this situation you could recommend? [Read Amy's Answer…]

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Sex Toy Review: YES Oil-Based Lube – By Lollie

by Amy on December 14, 2012

in Amy's Blog,Sex Toy Reviews

I am a very new member of the oil-based lube fan club, mainly due to its miraculous ability to create a hole in latex (i.e. condoms) within about 30 seconds. Because my partner and I have both been tested and are no longer concerned with condom use, we have begun experimenting with different oil-based lubes.

My partner is extremely sensitive to chemicals, especially when it comes to lubricants. Every water-based and silicone-based lube we tried left him irritated the next day. When I heard about the YES brand and how it is certified organic and doctor-recommended, we had to try it out. The water-based YES lube had a great consistency, but my partner still reacted to it, albeit less severe than others. But when we finally tried the oil-based YES lube, we instantly fell in love. The oil is so nice because not only does it slicken up the area, but it moisturizes, too! It feels much more natural and smooth rather than slippery, last longer than water-based lubes, can be used with just about any sex toy, and best of all, my partner doesn’t react to it! We’re both super happy with this lube and plan to continue purchasing it, as well as to explore other oil-based lube options.

- Lollie

Note- For the ladies prone to yeast infections, oil-bases lube may not be the best option for you. Look for glycerine-free/sugar-free water-based lubes, such as YES water-based or Hathor Aphrodisia.

Oil-based lubes are also a great option for menopausal/post-menopausal women as they actually work to moisturize the tissue.

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Streaming Sex-Ed Videos Now Online!

by Amy on December 5, 2012

in Amy's Blog,Classes,Events At Pure Pleasure

Take Pure Pleasure Sex-Ed from the privacy of your own home! Filmed from an actual live class!

Shy? Have limited mobility?  Or perhaps you’re just too busy to make our evening classes. Whatever your reason is, we’ve had a number of requests to offer our sex-ed courses online, and we just launched our first online class, “Blowjob 101″, taught by yours truly.  And if all goes well, we’ll keep them coming ;) Enjoy!

~Blowjob 101: An Online Class~

Approximately 50 Minutes

Join us for this fun mini-seminar that is sure to blow his mind. Pure Pleasure Sex Educator, Amy Baldwin, will show you how to master the art of fellatio. Topics will include everything from hands-to-mouth techniques, as well as toys, lubes, and ways to make safer-sex even sexier.

Click here for more details

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