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Dear Amy,
My girlfriend has a very tight vagina. This is great for me but can cause discomfort during sex if/when I get too enthusiastic. Our sex life is open and honest but we can’t seem to find a solution. What are our options?
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Hi Amy,
I am in my mid-fifties and just starting to date again after quite awhile. I have always liked sex and have had great experiences, but never a vaginal organism. The only time I can reach an orgasim is when my clitoris is stimulated but not actually during penetration. I think it might be too far away from my vagina or something. Now that I’m dating again I’d like to figure out if there is anyway I might be able to reach an orgasim with a partner actually inside me. I always feel uncomfortable telling a man that although I enjoy him inside me – that isn’t exactly what gets the train out of the station. Any advise?
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Hi Amy,
My question is I am 35 years old, have have multiple partners over the years and I have had them always “looking out for me” and I havent had to “do” anything, I have become acustom to being spolied if you will, but just recently Ihave encountered a gentleman who I have actually wanted to participate with and please him so that we are both getting ours. My delimma is this I have no clue as to how to or what to do. Generally I am place in postions so I know those but to actually initiatie and then persorm for a guy, clueless. I am now looking into this because I want him to be my “first” and I want him to be satisfied with the results. I have never rode a guy, never given a bj, and my hand job skills can be improved. Something tastefull yet freaky.
I would appreciate it if you can offer tips as well as where I can go to get help. I need visuals and porn is not an option as I believe that is just fantasy and a way to make a chick try to wear herself out unnecessarily.
Thank You
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Dear Amy,
i have recently started using various cock rings and have found that i like to have mine very tight. After a while even the tightest fit was not enough so now i use a piece of surgical tubing and tie it under the boys and around the joystick. my concern is this, is there any damage i can do to myself my having am penis and testicles wrapped up too tightly?
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Hi Amy. My friends keep telling me to get a rabbit vibrator. They say it’s a guaranteed orgasm, but I’m not sure if I ‘m ready to spend that much money on my first toy. Do you recommend the rabbit as a first toy or should I go for something else?
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