As a certified sex educator and co-owner of an upscale adult toy store, Amy is passionate about providing honest, accurate information to help people enhance their sexual pleasure and well-being. Ask her anything related to sexuality, and your question may be answered and posted as one of the questions of the week. To learn more about Amy, click here.

 

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Does Size Matter?

by Amy on August 17, 2011

in Ask Amy

Faust asks:

Me and my friends were out drinking the other day, and somehow our conversation came to the topic of penises.  We debated them for a while, while my Asian friend stayed oddly quiet.  What do you think of these penile questions?  Specifically, preferable length, girth, does size matter, and pubes.  I think I know some of the answers, but I don’t want to make a fool of myself, and I want to tell my friends a more definitive answer. [Read Amy's Answer…]

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Is She Cheating?

by Amy on August 12, 2011

in Ask Amy

Itashi asks:

My girlfriend and I got together 5 months ago. We started out innocent, then one day bam! we were having sex behind a Walmart. We didn’t do it much but maybe once a week we would make love again. Then she stopped being interested in making love. This was about 2 months into the relationship and I soon found out she was cheating on me…she had been with another guy and they did it constantly…after I found out, I told her it was over and she publicly cried for me back and after about a week I decided if she tried this hard for me we could work. Now at this point its been 2 1/2 months and for two weeks we went back to making love occasionally…now a month ago she told me she wants to wait until we get married to make love again…do you think she’s really caring for me when she says that or is she…cheating again…?

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The wait is over! It’s finally here!

The backside of my bondage body cast is now complete in its ceramic form with a beautiful metallic gold finish. And now my tied-up bum is being displayed at Pure Pleasure for Richard Smith’s First Friday Art Show (alongside a Wine Walk event featuring local vineyards) . Come check me out! Or, better yet, buy me!

Here are the details:

First Friday Art & Wine Walk

“Bottoms Up….Dedicated To What Is Behind Us”

5:00 pm -9:00pm

Art exhibit viewing is FREE. Ticket purchase required for wine tasting.

Wine featuring Hunter Hill Winery

This month’s exhibit features pit-fired, life form sculpture by Richard Smith.  Learn more about Richard and his work at mooseheadstudio.com.

Also, as part of the First Friday Wine Walk, Pure Pleasure will be hosting a local Santa Cruz area winery, who will be offering samples to ticket holders.  Tasting tickets may be purchased online, or at participating retail locations on the day of the event. Participants will be given a wristband, an event wine glass, and a list of participating Wine Walk locations. For information on the Wine Walk and/or to purchase a tasting ticket, visit: firstfridaysantacruz.com

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