As a certified sex educator and co-owner of an upscale adult toy store, Amy is passionate about providing honest, accurate information to help people enhance their sexual pleasure and well-being. Ask her anything related to sexuality, and your question may be answered and posted as one of the questions of the week. To learn more about Amy, click here.
Wondering asks:
Thank you for your previous response. Next question.
Do you believe it’s possible for all women to squirt? I love more than anything to make my girlfriend cum and I have to say while she does enjoy our sex life and does cum she is very quiet about it during intercourse. I think the biggest turn on is knowing when your partner has an orgasm and as much as I tell her this she is very resistant to announcing it during sex. I was thinking that by learning techniques to make her orgasms more obvious such as by squirting it would solve this problem.
Thanks for all your help.
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Stone asks:
What lube would you recommend for handjobs? There’s such a bewildering variety of choices–great, right?!–but a few suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! [Read Amy's Answer…]
Colin-ization asks:
What ways can you suggest to introduce and negotiate kinky play (power exchange, role play scenes, spanking, pet collars, etc) with a partner who’s never really taken the plunge before? I meet a lot of people are really under-informed about the topic which makes for a steep learning curve. I like pushing people’s envelopes, but it’s a delicate balance to only challenge someone just as much as their ready for. Any ideas about establishing comfort and trust? [Read Amy's Answer…]
Wondering asks:
My girlfriend and I have a wonderful sex life but I believe that when I cum in her mouth or on her she would like to see more volume. I have read about some volume enhancing supplements on the web but am very leery to buy these as often they are a scam. Do you have any suggestions for how to increase volume? [Read Amy's Answer…]
Dear Amy-
It’s time to let go a little, relinquish control, stop planning ahead, and forget about the end result. You’re missing out on the journey, for Christ’ sake! Relax, focus, BREATHE! Fuck the destination. If you get there, you get there. If you don’t, at least you had a great time along the way. Okay?
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