Donkey Punching and Consent

Allex asks:

Hi Amy,
My girlfriend recently asked me a question about "donkey punching"... i really had no idea what this exactly entitled, so i googled it trying to learn more... it seems so radical, that i'm not sure if it ok to do? We fooled around one night and tried it out, but i was so scared i was going to hurt her, that i just slapped her and severely bruised her eye and pissed her off. now she hasn't spoken with me in three days, and i'm not sure if i will ever be able to meet her donkey punching standards. The next time i see my GF, i want to really give her a run for her money.. what's the best way to this technique? Should i completely give up, or just keep on trying for my girl? is this sort of physical contact normal?

thanks, hope you can help.
Allex

Dear Allex,

Everyone has their own set of beliefs regarding acceptable sexual practices. All things aside, the best universal philosophy that can be applied to sex is that all consensual sex is good sex. If your girlfriend consented to receiving the punch, and you consented to giving it, than you are in the clear.

Because you are new to this particular sexual act, and accidents do (and did) happen, you may also want to take extra precaution. Hitting someone in the back of the head can be dangerous, sometimes even lethal. Furthermore, if your girlfriend became angry when you had trouble initiating the donkey punch (resulting in a black eye), you two may want to sit down and talk about your intentions further before proceeding. Communication is very important when venturing into new realms of sexuality, and is a must when defining whether or not consent is present.

Lastly, if you are looking for ways to perfect this technique with as little injury as possible, you may want to do more research on the topic via the Internet.