I'm a tall, good looking, successful single guy living in the Santa Cruz area. While I have no problem connecting with women, I have a cuckold fetish that gets in the way of long term relationships. Specifically, seeing my significant other with Black men really, really turns me on. Am I wrong assuming this fetish is enjoyed mostly by white men or are more women becoming more comfortable with this kind of relationship?
Everyone has their own fetishes and turn-ons, so I cannot generalize about one specific fetish when individuality plays such a huge role in each person's experience. Some men will find your fetish super sexy, while others may not. The same goes for women.
With that said, I like to believe that our culture is growing more open and accepting of the many forms of sexuality, so there's a good chance you can find a few women who are into your cuckold fetish. Check out Fetlife.com and look in the groups and discussions to find a whole community that has the same fetishes as you.