Rape, Sexual Abuse, and the Many Forms They May Take

Posted by Amy Baldwin on

Sam Asks:

My wife has this friend and she is hot. I want to get my wife to kiss her friends feet even though I know she wont want too but her friend is into it. Is it ok to maybe get her a little drunk and make her do this? Her friend thinks it is a good idea but want to run it by you.

Dear Sam:

I'll keep this plain and simple: NO, it is not okay for you to get your wife drunk in hopes that she will do something she does not want to do. The fact that she will be intoxicated affects her ability to give her full consent. This applies to any unwarranted sexual activity, whether it's kissing, touching, and/or penetrative sex. Furthermore, if your wife has expressed her lack of interest in kissing her friend, do you really want to disrespect that by coercing her into doing it anyway?

I suggest you familiarize yourself with the definition of rape and sexual abuse and the many forms they may take on. Please check out all of the following websites, pay close attention, and then put into practice to respect the well-being of other people, including that of your wife.

Pandora's Project

RAINN

MenCanStopRape

 

 


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  • Sam,

    I’d have to agree with the statements above from Amy. Think about something you wouldn’t want to do in bed and how you would feel if the tables were turned. How you might feel embarrassed, ashamed or just plain icky or felt used the next morning. If you love your wife, you need to talk out what her resistance is. And if she still has no interest, respect her wishes just as you would want her to respect yours.

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